What's Okay and Not Okay in the Christian Marriage Bed?

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Karuna Satori ASMR : So like, why is this in my recommended

Jake V : "You need to shut up and read your bible." LOL DED.

jrgboy : Although the UK is a Christian country less than 5% attend church regularly.

Luca : is anyone else watching this baked

wingedeyelinerisoverrated : those emails are from trolls lol

Cierra Mae : someone in a relationship can most definitely be raped by their significant other

craig hughes : I liked it when she said 'Half cocked' and he smirked.

maisiemumbles : I don't know how I got here, I'm not a believer but you two are adorable

Caca_ Fangirl : I've never heard a Christian podcast before and I really liked this! I'll have to check out more :)

Hannah Rymill : Teabagging?

Heavy Metal Vixxen : You know the bible was written by scribes by men for men right? Did god physically write it? No

teeduck : Everyone needs to stay a virgin their whole lives.

Keith MacManus : It seems that "Christians" are an emotional train wreck when it comes to letting go and enjoying sex. You gotta figure, during your young and impressionable years being told that any sexual thought or desire is labeled as sinful ....Then you get married and you have to completely learn a new behavior and enjoy sex. That shameful upbringing tends to stay with that person even after marriage. Ingredients for a dysfunctional sex life. I think it would be like marrying an iceberg.....

Deborah Corona : I married a man that did not tell me he was unable to have sex at all! At first I didn't think it was a big deal because I told him well you have two hands and you can take care of me that way. As it turns out he is very lazy and just won't. I felt so betrayed and abandoned! I have spoke with him several times about it. He would get very angry and tell me all I thought about was my female counterparts putting it nicely. The first time I got a response out of him he told me that every time I brought the subject up I reminded him of his inadequacies. He's been to the doctor his hormones are perfect he's taking different medications to no avail so we talked about maybe an implant or other options and he said no. He says he has absolutely no interest in sex at all ! I was flabbergasted at the realization that I did not matter to him in a sexual way. Because of the fact he didn't want to do anything about it I finally told him I wanted to leave last year and he asked me if I wanted him to blow his brains out?! I dropped the subject right away. I realized if someone is willing to kill their selves because they're that codependent then they are to be considered a loose cannon. At the present time I am working with mental health services through depression. They have signed me up to get a Section 8 apartment and in the meantime I'm sitting here trying to get along with him until I leave. I don't know how to react. I have completely shut down. If I clean the kitchen up he'll trash it out. He's constantly belittling me rephrase and everything I say invalidating me and making me feel like a nobody. I have just had a birthday in February and decided I owe it to myself to get out of here. However I have two small dogs and I have a prescription for them they are emotional support animals. I cannot leave them behind and I don't know anyone who will treat them as good as I do they're like children to me. my husband has a short fuse and yells a lot in my dogs are terrified of him on a regular basis. otherwise I would have already went to a domestic violence shelter. I'm in the Phoenix area and if anyone reading this loves God I ask you to pray for me for guidance and direction. and please be true to yourself and true to the person you want to marry so you don't alter the other person's life.

Rüneld Cameron : 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Christian's are so funny.

Justyna : I hate how they said "you need to submit to your husband". it seems so toxic. I know its not supposed to but please, dont you see that?

Diaphanous Earth : I hear this guy's passion about his wife's loyalty to himself. I do not hear his passion for her experience of their union. Something amiss.

Meg Dougherty : I was gonna dislike this, but there’s 666 dislikes and I want to keep it that way

MsMsmak : Fascinating. Thank goodness that religious nonsense like this is on the way out.

JOSE ESPARZA : Very good video. The case of oral sex is kind of "what should I do". Should I do it or not? When I first came to THE LORD, I was like a teen. Like when a teen, for the first time been aware of his/her sexual drive. I knew that sex gave pleasure, but only "normal natural sex". I didn't not really knew the pleasures of the flesh, as a teen. Before CHRIST in my life I wanted to try almost everything that had to do with sexual pleasure. And my wife and I did try some off it. But after CHRIST in our marriage some stuff stoped. Why? Cause I couldn't do it anymore. Cause when CHRIST came into our lives we experienced true love in our marriage bed. Personally, I think that GOD created the parts of our bodies for it's own unique functions. And some parts have more than one function. When it comes to sodomy, the parts that are perverted with the sodomy act. They are perverted cause, those parts were not created for that function. So, when it comes to oral sex, are the sexual parts created for that function? THE LORD gave us love, but we fall or go into fleshly pleasure. Fleshly pleasure will never fill the space of love. Personally, I believe that we need to pray and listen to THE LORD, when it comes to our marriage bed. GOD bless

Ellotus Freeholy : 'Every time God says 'don't', it's really saying 'don't hurt yourself'. That hit me profoundly, after all, it really doesn't benefit or harm God permanently for us to either follow or not follow, respectively, those guidelines. It's simply that God is happy to see us happy, just like any other loving, well balanced parent would (And it's truly astounding that God the Almighty does it all towards us without force, we are free to choose all along the way, our choices simply demonstrate our response to God's love). Thank you so much for that.

John Smith : I honestly think her Scriptural justification of oral sex was way out of line. I think her reference to enjoying the sweet flavour of his fruit as being oral sex was a huge distortion of a great metaphor. Be safe just keep ploughing away in the ' Missionary Position'...

Jason Shirtz : Concerning why BDSM is wrong... 17-18 min mark approximately "If you just keep the picture of your marriage bed as being a representation between the love of Christ he has for the church and Vice Versa, that should just paint a beautiful picture that If I start bringing in all this other stuff, you are really convoluting a really beautiful love story." I just had to laugh out loud when I read this. because if the New Testament is to be believed, God loved the world, and the church so much that to show it, he had the following things happen to his son Jesus, in more or less this order: 1. He was falsely accused of a crime, and convicted as such after being betrayed by a kiss from one of his closest friends. 2. He was then whipped with a scourge, to the point where flesh was tearing off from his body. 3. He was forced to carry his own cross to the place of his death. 4. He was forced to wear a crown of thorns on his head. 5. He was then nailed to a cross (Immobilizing him, a EXTREME form of Bondage, as it were) 6. and then he hung there, on the cross, bleeding, pierced in his feet and hands, having been severely whipped mere hours before, wearing a crown of thorns until finally he died. If anything, given that: John 3:16 (KJV) " For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. " I think I could make the argument that if one is to hold one's marriage bed as a "representation between the love of Christ and the church and vice versa" what would be a greater representation of the manner of Christ's sacrifice for the church and all of humanity, than BDSM, with it's whips, it's acceptance of your loved one inflicting bodily pain and torture upon you (with you accepting it) as Christ accepted bodily pain and torture from the ones he loved, on their behalf??

Juli Ane : Why would someone want to be submissive to someone else?!

7777LORENZO : No rape is not accepted as a marriage is one man / woman together so why defile your own body in marriage.

classy me : I feel a toy is somewhat a third party much like a physical or digital or virtual person. And for those who are saying "don't tell people what to do in the bedroom", people literally reach out to them with these questions so obviously there's a demand for their opinion as adverse to it as you may be. You are the same ones who get the opinion of cosmopolitan, buzzfeed, etc etc on your sex life & once you hear what you don't like, it's down with it. Stop it. eff'in hypocrisy.

Beatrice Rodrigues : Can I peg my bf

Awakened Saint : Don’t listen to the haters. If they are not born again they cant understand why we would even care what God says. 1Co 2:14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

David Porter : Everything consensual is ok between a man and his wife. Everything consensual is ok between a man and woman not even married. And like it or not, everything consensual is ok between a man and a man or a woman and a woman. Christianity needs to stop trying to dictate what consenting adults do behind closed doors. As long as people don't infringe on your rights, you have no business infringing on what they do in theirs. It doesn't matter what bronze age Palestinian goat herders have to say about human sexuality. They hold no sway over the modern age. You are all bigots if you think you have a right to say a single damn word about what other humans do with their own bodies in the privacy of their own homes.

Lep P : So, no imagination, phone it in if you're not in the mood, no kink even if you both want it. Basically, all vanilla.

zeitbedingt : So, basically they're saying: We have boring vanilla sex once every decade so you're not allowed to have good sex either.

I'm looking for the tower of learning : if you're enjoying yourself, you're doing something sinful.

Emily Richard : What’s ok and not ok in the Christian marriage bed? Let me answer that in two sentences. What is ok: any kind of consent or safety practices!!! What is not ok: Any kind of rape or abusive pressures!!! Super Simple! Not hard to answer! See, this video got it all wrong. I’m defending this Christian asexual man as a Christian asexual woman!!

¿Do Geese See God? : "I have more important things to worry about than how ya'll are boning. Just don't rape and wash up before/after butt stuff. Cleanliness is godliness, a'ight? Peace." -God

Beannie : ANAL

Tmdamora Damora : I bet you that this couple does the most kinky stuff in bed. I'm a Christ follower but I have to be suspicious about them.

Brittany B : Not sure why YouTube recommended this to me but this is the strangest thing I've ever seen. I have so many questions. Does the Bible count as a third party? Do you pray during the act? Is it okay to get off while reading the Bible? Is it a sin to think of Jesus (a third person) during sex? Is pretending to be Christ and the church role playing? What is Christian dirty talk like? Does treating a husband as a metaphorical equivalent of God count as idolatry? Do just women stop being visual creatures when they become Christian? Are you allowed to co-masturbate? So many questions

david charles smith : What about stoning your daughter If she comes home late and she knows the boy next store!

arprewitt2000 : So you make a video about sex, then complain about getting emails regarding sex. Okay.

rosepetal34 : what about 69ing?....cause some people seem to like it

Leeanna Tweed : He sounds like Buffalo Bill

Ashlyn Yates : the idea of being spanked is creepy but the analogy that your marriage bed is a representation of the way Christ loves the church... isn't? ded

Bipolartorecovery : is this for real??? or trolling??? this should be easy. what is ok:anything you both consent to. what's not ok:anything without the other person's consent or manipulating the other into doing something they don't want to do. simple. easy. and no one else's damn business on which flavors you are into unless there wasn't mutual consent. then its the police's business

Sheldan Clerge : 6:43 wE lIkE nAkEd WoMaN

chloe elizabeth : For everyone being mean in the comments.. They’re not demanding anything or withholding anyone from what they wish to do in their own sex lives. They’re simply giving their opinions for those who asked. I’m not religious, but I will ALWAYS respect others’ beliefs. They did nothing wrong here. If you don’t like watching this kind of content or agree with it, then don’t watch it. If you do not like for someone to push their religion on you and be hateful toward you because you think otherwise, then do not go out of your way to do so to others. Im astonished at the lack of respect people have for each other.

Fredricko Smithson : Ain't got a marriage ain't got a wife ain't got a bed ,sorted

Iris Chillin : I think is perfect for all the confusing points on the Bible and you guys are amazing presenting your guidelines. And I love how your responses are straight from what THE BIBLE SAYS. And people in the comments keep saying that you guys shouldn’t tell people what to do. But I think they forgot that people ASKED you guys these questions. And they’re really blind and clueless to what Gods creation of husband and wife is and how the two should act as one. And I loved your point on the aggressive side of sex. How you compared it to, how husbands and wife’s are representing Jesus’ love to the church, and by doing those aggressive actions, it turns a beautiful love story very twisted.

Allison Cross : sodomy includes oral just saying

Chris From SouthAus : The Bible says shagging your slave is ok right?

fandom vids : why did I watch the whole thing