The hypocrisy of women not wanting to date short men | Aba on Heightism

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A Helping Hand : Respond by asking them how much they weigh. That's fucking brilliant. lol

TheTCOLL : Video is so true. The amount of hypocrisy with women really gets me down sometimes. I was 30 pounds heavier and even overweight women were turning me down. I got in better shape, the complete opposite. Most women's profiles say either 59 and 510 and above. Ive never had a problem as I am 6 on the nose but still quite often get "are you really 6? You seem a bit shorter." I then proceed to get them to measure my height and they have nothing to say. Imagine doing something similar with girls?

MaceJace : Thing is though men can't help how tall they are, yet they have to be over a certain height. Weight is something women are able to change yet we are labelled as shallow and as villains for wanting someone of a preferred weight. But when women say that about height it's perfectly fine? Double standards over here.

MyNameIsJack : I find it funny how women assume they are in the spot light when it comes to criticism, such as weight, figure etc. Yet this is a prime example that women are just the same and criticise men on height, ding dong and masculinity.

spbxl : Wonder how many feminazis had a catastrophic shit fit after watching this hahahaha

Q Speed Racer : have had girls 5'0" say i don't date guys under 5'10" . wtf.

achille295 : Okay, Im short. Give me a sec I need to go kill myself

David : the irony is that short men are the legends if history... Einstein (science), David vs Goliath (battle), Lionel Messi, Maradonna, Sachin Tendulkar (Sports).... even the villains in history aren't tall... Stalin etc... lmao so girls are superficial and can't learn a thing from history either...

airman122469 : I personally have no problem with women having these preferences. I too have preferences, it's fine. What I absolutely hate is when women are hypocritical about it. I have a friend that I know she only dates skinny guys, and when I complained about a woman's weight she got offended on behalf of said woman. I eventually got her to admit her hypocrisy, but it blew my mind that she didn't see it herself immediately. By the way, I agree that judging someone based on their weight is better than judging based on height, as it is an indicator of choices. There are medical conditions that make weight more problematic for certain people, but those are fairly uncommon, and quite frankly are still genetic traits that you probably don't want propagating through your lineage.

Sam : The point is both genders have their preferences. What sucks is guys are judged for having standards by the same ladies that refuse to go for anyone shorter than 6'0.

AFC : If women say they don't date short guys it gives me a reason to say this, I don't date fat women.

Mr1sammyd21 : perfect example how dumb and shallow most western women are. If he were short, fat but rich all of the sudden he has a great personality and height, weight, or looks doesn't matter.

dudewiththename : Being 5'6'' sucks :/

bloodyredshade : I've been five feet tall since I was in high school. Honestly it's not fun. I've been told plenty of times to my face that the reason why a woman wouldn't date me is because of my height. Didn't matter if I could run five miles, look good, be a gentlemen or could fuck like a mad man. They just didn't like me cause of my height. I was put in the friendzone so many times because of my height it's not even funny. Still I just moved on, dated girls who were shorter than me, namely Asian Women, and just did my own thing. Still though it's a pretty crappy feeling when a woman doesn't give you a chance simply because of something you can't change.

JustAnotheyGuy : I am a tallish woman married to a short man.I am 5,11(with heels I can get to 6,5) and my husband is 5,6.I have never had a problem with dating men or women who were shorter than me.I love my husband for who he is,not how tall he is.My short husband can carry me,he is strong,and he loves that being short means when hugging,his face lands right in my boobs.He is also happy to buy me heels so he can look at my long legs.So short guys,remember,you are just as good as a tall guy.Ladies who might pass on a short guy,think again,you might be missing out on a wonderful man.

Stern Fan : *SORRY, but....* Fat chicks can always lose weight. What can a manlet do? 😂 😂 😂

Ryan Gunnip : Pretty sure there's a ton of tall women out there who feel like men don't even give them the light of day because of their height.

Mike Hamada : Weight can be fixed dumbass, hight is genetic can't be fixed.

Merdiso The Renderer : The girl at 1:18 is just ... damn, that's some natural beauty combined with intelligence/reasoning right there.

Mo Overall Fitness Hacks : you can change weight but not your height. women have no answer for this hypocrisy

Granny Emery : i like short people


Monstrodolagoness1 : I love that absence of women in the comment section

Jonathan Tan : My man , this video is GOLD. There's nothing better than revealing hypocrisy

Zheeph Rose : I wanna buy this dude a beer.

Shazam!! : It's because women want to feel protected and a man's superior stature gives them that feeling. Short men don't cut it unfortunately. Fuck you genetics.

Dad : I'm glad I'm a "short" man. I would not have said that in my younger blue pill years, but at 5'9" it has saved me thousands of dollars wasted on dates and possible pregnancies. Now I have a fat bank so I get to be the picky choosy one. Women tend to forget height when they see monetary status. All those jock-dating cunts I knew in high school? Now I'm taking their younger more perfect versions of themselves out for a good time. Success is the best revenge.

NerdyIsFly : I feel like if you were to ask guys the question, "do you prefer your girl to be tall or short?", and they were to answer honestly, they would say they preferred a girl who was shorter than them. It may not be a top priority to them, but I know I prefer women who are shorter than me, cause my mom set the standard for me of what an ideal women is and she was short. Also, the thought of being with someone taller than me intimidates me. Anyway, just sharing my thoughts.

Gangst3r4ever : As a guy with bad genes I wish the nazis won

Mike P : Women are programmed to like bigger and taller guys. Why? So they can feel safe and protected. Literally no woman has ever said "Oooh, look at that stud! He's soooo short and has the narrowest shoulders....what a man!" It truly is similar for guys because neither me nor my friends have ever said "Oooh, look at how flat chested that chick is! She's got no ass either, I think I'm in love!" Big breasts and hips/ass indicate she'd be good at bearing children. All of you do realize that despite your feelings about love, the whole point of sex from an biological point of view is to procreate right??? Subconsciously we want to pass along certain genetic qualities. We may not even realize it, but that's all there is to it. I know for a fact certain girls have dated me simply because I'm 6'2" and I'm perfectly fine with that lol. And I've never (nor will I) date a flat chested girl. Sorry, not sorry.

Dexter : Notice the the woman at 1:18 is hot and smart, the only one out of all those women.

matt1315s : This is an interesting video. I'm 6'4 there is no short people in my family at all. With that being said I actually prefer tall women. Its not that I dont like short women and I have dated short women in the past. For me its a preference, but ladies if your short its not a deal killer. It just helps if your 5'8 and above. Ladies date short men they need love too.

TudiPlays : "traditionally speaking, height is an indicator of status". Actually, in the past, the way to show wealth and power was with your body - that being how FAT you were. If a man was fat, it meant he could afford a lot of food, and that he was 'living well'. Though. Fun little fact she missed, and I don't see women hunting for fat men. Part of the reason that women want a taller men is (and this is just a popular theory) that this is how they are portrayed in media. When you see movies, read books or watch media in general, the man is nearly always taller - hence becomming the standard. And everyone wants to reach this standard.. so the taller the man, the more potential he has :)

Mr. oldman : 2,628 women disliked the video lmao

David Gentry : Not to mention, at a young age girls are taught about the TALL, DARK & Handsome guy that they should look for. TALL is the first criteria. Their is the beginning of the programming of women on this issue. I'm 5'5" "tall", not short & I have been single most of my life & still am, but I have a lot of other qualified attributes that women look for but get shot down before they find them out. THEIR LOSE. I MOVE ON.

Chuy83 : If height is a thing of good genetics, then it would go both ways. Men would also only want tall women and would only praise tall women as beautiful, but that's not the case, men don't care about height. There are beautiful women of all heights. I have seen beauty in tall and short women. This is just an excuse women make up because they don't want to give up their ignorant, archaic, media brainwashed standards, and really, they just want something that men can not change to hold against men.

Lonnie Kennedy : Why are you all hating on people that just prefer what they prefer? Sucks for the short dudes. Find someone else. It's not that deep lmao.

Roberto Giménez : I listened for 21 seconds and realized the dude thinks height is not a criteria for attractiveness in women. I'm short, but I use my brain.

jony bob : Im not even short and this pisses me off. I would say the same thing about weight. I always said that a person's weight actually is a legitimate reason to judge a person. It reflects a person's state of mind (depress people tend to be overweight), their judgement, their future health risks, their decision habits, etc. Height is just height. You can, by your own will, lose weight but you can't make yourself taller. The hyposcrisy among women is honestly outstanding.

Mxrk Garcia : Some of the comments here shows why girls won't date y'all and it's not because of height.

yepyepIlove : I find it interesting how women can have a preference for height but if a man says he doesn’t want to date a fat girl all hell breaks loose and the new-age feminists come out.... saying this as a woman.

Andrew Caver : I'm in that awkward position of being a short dude at 5'2 and yet being attracted to women my height or shorter by default. But you know what? The last woman in this video had it right. It shouldn't be about the person's height. If I was hanging with a 6'4 amazon and she and I had a mutual attraction, I'm not gonna pass it up just because I feel "emasculated" or whatever by her height. Yeah, it might be awkward at first, but just like any other negative/unconventional aspects of a mature relationship, you find ways to make it work or you move on. That simple.

baldy hardnut : I dont think this guy has a life making up some word just to promote himself and his wast of time...

M. W : Remind me again why women are called the caring gender.

smooth operator like green arrow : What you need to understand about chicks is that women compete against other women KNOWINGLY. That's really all there is to it. When these 5"0-5"5 chicks all claim to want tall guys 6ft + cause they love heels/or any other variation of such bullshit, what they're really saying is " i want a guy as tall as/ taller than my girlfriends' dates/boyfriends/husbands so that i can brag about how tall he is to my girls". Women have a pack mentality and this is why you'll notice that women who DON'T MIND( cause that's the case) average height men most times than not have girlfriends who date/are with average height men. Pack mentality at its best!

Jeffery Allrn : woman are always more shallow. alot of studies show most mean view most woman as 7s. however most woman view most men as 4s.

Sancho : These are insecure women, actually. Some of them may pretend to be about feminism, but they are actually falling back into tradition female roles.

that one again : Today's women are taught it is ok to be completely selfish in relationships. It has gone too far. Men need to stick up for each other's self worth as much as women do.

Emil Fitness : I 5.5 and i'm dating a girl who is 5.9. Never had problems with my height, but I guess is just how you feel about yourself and if you are self confident or not. I also think that if a Girl judge you on your height or she want somebody taller then you, then the sea is plenty of fish and I dont want to date a shallow girl like that :)

Aubrey Tili'a : From a biological or psychological perspective, perhaps the reason why women prefer men who are taller than them is because height could be an indicator of strength or power. Women like to be "dominated" in the way that the men are larger than them so that they can feel safe and protected. I'm not denying that both men and women can be shallow about these sorts of things but we can't ignore the science of it.